you know what really bugs me?
is when parents wont let their kid stretch their ears or dye their hair or get piercings etc just because they don’t like it.
I’m sorry but, last time i checked your kid is its own person with their own personality and style. just because you don’t like something like that, doesn’t mean your kid shouldn’t be allowed to have them.
we’re always told to ‘be ourselves’ but tbh, were not allowed to express ourselves.